10 Ways to Instantly Attract Women Anywhere You Go
how do attract women?
Are you tired of being rejected by women everywhere you go?
Do you envy the charismatic men that get all the girls while you’re left alone in the corner?
If so, there’s no need to worry — I have 10 ways that will instantly attract women wherever you go!
Follow these simple rules, and soon you’ll be surrounded by beautiful women and could even be one of those charming men yourself!
Are you ready to learn how to attract women?
Let’s get started!
1) Dress like you know where you’re going
When women see you’re dressed in a manner that suggests you know where you’re going and what you’re doing, they interpret that as security and safety.
They feel secure enough with your appearance to consider talking to you; they trust that they can let their guard down.
Feeling safe is one of a woman’s most basic emotions when considering social interaction.
Look at it from her perspective: she doesn’t want anything else distracting her from whatever she’s doing, her friends, or work.
2) Have your style
Dressing uniquely helps make you memorable, which increases your odds of getting approached.
Have a signature style that will make you stand out. It could be something as simple as wearing bright, bold colors or patterned shirts, or something more elaborate like a themed outfit (for example doctor’s uniform or black tie).
As long as it makes you look distinct, that’s what matters.
If you want to attract women, have your style and stick with it — you don’t need permission from anyone else.
3) Know when to be direct and when to be more subtle
The one thing that people can do is know when it’s appropriate to be more direct and when it’s better to be a little more playful or indirect, says Karr.
The way I like to think about it is: if you’re going to ask somebody out on a date, which I recommend against if you’ve never met them before, if you’ve met them before and you know their general personality style (are they more of an analytical thinker versus someone who likes doing things in more of a spontaneous manner), then asking out directly would probably work well.
At times, however, being too direct could hurt your chances.
4) Eye contact is everything
Staring into someone’s eyes for just a few seconds can dramatically affect them.
This type of eye contact tells your date that you are engaged, interested, and excited to see her.
She may assume that you’re not very interested in being with her without it. Use it as much as possible! It will also help you read her emotions — if she seems upset or bored by something you are saying or doing (or vice versa), keep an eye out for what’s upsetting her and fix it ASAP.
But don’t overdo it; staring too long can make people uncomfortable. Practice Until you get it right.
5) Be calm about it all
Remember, if you appear too eager, she will lose interest.
Do not ask for it when you’re talking to a woman and want her number.
Instead, pretend like it was an afterthought and tell her that you don’t have one on hand.
This will get her number without making her feel like you’re just trying to get it from her.
Learn how to be calm about your intentions so that women won’t know what they are until they talk with you again.
They will likely develop their idea of why they want to see you again based on what transpired when your encounter ended.
6) Don’t be afraid of silence
Many people are afraid of silence.
They talk to hear themselves talk and have no confidence that they’ll be able to hold a woman’s interest without saying something.
Silence is comfortable and one of many ways that you can keep a woman interested in you for as long as you want.
The key here is not about rambling on or being wholly silent but knowing when it’s time for words and when it’s time for action.
Though: When she says something important, let her finish!
She doesn’t need your help with her point or feelings; if she feels you don’t respect what she has to say, why would she think any differently about your other actions?
7) Ditch the baggage
As a single guy, you’ve probably developed some bad habits that are making you less attractive to women.
Maybe you’re too shy or awkward in social situations, insecure about your body language, or just a generally negative person.
Whatever it is, fix these things because they’ll be noticeable (and unattractive) to women.
The same is true of women who have the baggage of their own — but if a woman can overcome her problems and has a positive outlook on life, she will be far more appealing than someone who can’t get over her issues.
Your mission here is clear: ditch any baggage and develop a positive attitude toward life!
8) No need for small talk; act like a man
So you’re standing there, face-to-face with a beautiful woman, and suddenly your mind goes blank. Your throat goes dry.
Your palms begin to sweat. It’s a nightmare scenario for men, but it happens often.
Don’t be afraid of looking like an idiot for saying something silly — it happens to everyone.
Instead, ask her if she wants fries with that (just kidding). Or you could say something funny or witty that no one would ever think of saying and break any awkward tension around you.
Most importantly, act like a man when talking to women: Don’t tell her how pretty she is; instead, get to business and find out what she does for fun.
9) Don’t make up stories. Just ask questions.
Pretending you’re a photographer and asking women if they’d like their picture taken is cheesy, obvious, and distracting.
Your goal isn’t to fool anyone into thinking you’re just an average guy who happens to have a camera in his hand; it’s to get a woman interested in talking with you.
Asking questions about things that matter to her (whether those are relationships, business ideas, or weekend plans) will allow her to open up while still allowing you time to take mental notes on what she enjoys.
The next time she sees you out at a coffee shop or in line at CVS — when she has no idea you were working — she won’t have any reason not to trust your normal interactions with her.
10) Respect her without her feeling disrespected
It’s essential to show a woman that you respect her, but you don’t want her feeling disrespected.
Never call a woman sweetheart, babe, or darling. These terms of endearment only objectify and disrespect women.
If you see an attractive lady on your commute home and think she looks like an Angelina Jolie look-alike, don’t tell her that.
It may seem flattering at first — and it probably is — but will she feel respected when you refer to her as someone else?
Remember: The more your actions and words make a woman feel comfortable around you, the more attracted she will be to you.
Flirting should be fun for both parties involved, so keep it lighthearted!